2009 Catch Up PostWhere We're At & Looking Back. . .So I realized I haven't done a status update in so long that it made me a little sad! Because even if no one else ever reads these blogs I do, and one of the things I love most about blogging is that it captures a snapshot of our lives at that moment and I can go back, look at the pictures read the post and relive that experience, day or feeling, and with how fast life passes by who could actually remember all the little details if it weren't written down somewhere - and Lord knows I'm not a scrap-booker!! Kaiden's is still in the plastic wrap!? Not to mention everyone else is doing it - ha ha such mature reasoning - but I appreciate them posting their catch up's and sparking my memory that I too needed to do an update. So here it goes. . .
Kaiden Coby
What's New:
Well I know I have mentioned it in some of my mass emails over the summer but Kaiden has had a vocabulary explosion!! It is outrageous the number of words he knows, how he speaks in complete sentences, how he can change around pronouns appropriately, he's starting to have word recognition when reading, he LOVES identifying objects and how he can connect all kinds of thoughts, with the vocabulary and follow through with the correct actions - for example he'll look at the chair say "I get up up" and then does it and once on the chair smiles and says "Kaiden get up up. I be careful Mommy." All that coupled with using expressive phrases at the appropriate times and with the correct inflection - it's nuts (which you'll be happy to know does not include any foul language - although he does say 'Oh Crap' which I think may be as much Daddy's fault as it is mine - but not too shabby!) Like he'll throw a ball & Dave will catch it and he'll exclaim "Oooohh Wow! Daddy catch a ball!" All this new found vernacular has lead to a much more imaginative play time - he'll go to his Elmo Kitchen bring me the menu (think we've eaten out a lot lately?) I'll choose my meal and he'll 'cook it' which is adorable because even if it's the milk he still puts the spoon in the pan and gives it a stir before bringing me my beverage and then I'll take a sip or a bite (all pretend of course) and he'll say "I like it. It's dewlicious!" and then open his mouth and wait for me to share a bite/sip with him - it's GREAT!
Current Favorite Phrases:
* I'm coming too!
* Woah, dat's cwazy! - He usually says this in reference to himself doing something that is in fact crazy!
* IceCweam Truck Coming!
*Ashy, no no bad boy! - Ever my little disciplinarian, Ashy is pretty consistently getting in trouble at our house - regardless of if she is here or not and forgetting that she is a girl. What are best friends for?!
Besides his new vocab he has some other cool new advances - this might seem like a small thing to most people, but he can finally sit down on his toys and have his feet reach the floor on both sides and he can propel himself around the house this way - as opposed to holding on to the back and sprinting through the house like he's on an episode of supermarket sweep!!! This is a nice thing, I know for sure that Trooper appreciates this as well! He has become pretty proficient at using his eating utensils and feeding himself, which is a blessing and at times a curse - like when I need to hurry him through a meal so we can get out the door or off to bed - and he pitches the "Kaiden do it" fit. But like I try to tell myself, these are good things just not necessarily at that moment. Kaiden is also very into helping around the house, he has his own swifter broom, which he loves to push around the house, and I don't mind the help either. He helps to open and close doors when possible, and the boy loves to clean things with rags - windows, the fridge, outside of the garbage can - so if you stop by and wonder whats different - the kitchen is clean that's what!!!
Kaiden's always had an opinion and always found a way to assert that (wonder where he gets that trait?). Any how, believe it or not, this is proving to be a really good thing in preventing temper tantrums. I give him the choice of two options (on just about everything all day) and let him pick what he wants and that works for both of us. He got what he wanted (within reason) and I avoided a toddler meltdown. So nowadays, Kaiden chooses which sippy, outfit, blanket, snack, meal, movie, show, book, toy, game well everything - pretty much - and it works for us so if you've read that this is a bad thing keep it to yourself cause we dig it! We kind of call this the 'OR' game - I'll say "Kaiden do you want milk OR water?" and he'll consider his options and then makes a choice, it's pretty impressive. Although he wouldn't be a Kirk if he didn't bend the rules a little, like when faced with the two afore mentioned options and it's not exactly what he wants, he thinks about it for a minute and answers "OR chocolate milk" which he says while enthusiastically shaking his head up and down with a big smile on his face. What can I say he's a clever kiddo! He's always been crazy about books, which I love, of course sometimes reading the same book over and over can be a trying exercise for me, I know it comes with the teritory, that and it's not about me! He's definitely starting to show word and character recognition - like he'll see numbers in a book and say "numbers! Count 1,2,3,4,5" and then after a pause will count to ten
Favorite Books:
* Bob The Builder - lift a flap - Who he calls "Bob-A-Bilb-uah" it's hilarious
*One Duck Stuck
*Very Busy Spider - he just discovered real spider webs so he totally digs this book!
*Merry Christmas Curious George - yes I realize it's July but he's digging George and he picked this one off his shelf so what was I going to say - wrong season?
And, well pretty much any book with nemo, mickey mouse, tigger-pooh or drive queen - so thats a good chunk of his library!!